Roadies like you and me know better. Mexican mechanics are one of their national treasures. They can fix things with few or no parts or make the ones they need.

I lift the hood to attract the guardia of the parking lot. I do better with mechanics (often called maestros) in Mexico than in the U.S. There, I’m not worried about losing my dignity or appearing unmanly.

I’m just a dumb gringo, so it’s okay if I don’t know exactly why the darn thing won’t work. It’s like being in the old days before everyone got liberated here. It frees me from a lot of stress.

The guard nods wisely as I say I think it’s the filtro sucio (dirty filter) that’s the problem. Of course, he doesn’t do that sort of work, but he has a friend who does. Of course. in only fifteen minutes, everything will be hunky-dory. Mexicans are often optimistic about time, so I agree, but don’t count on it.

After about twenty minutes, I return to see how it’s going. There’s a young guy there, Alejandro, and he’s working away, though he has a pained look on his face. The filter requires two wrenches of the same size. He has a very mismatched set of tools that don’t have two of anything the same.

We’re in luck. I have a good set of Buffalo brand wrenches. The filter won’t budge, but he can remove another long piece of fuel line, take the filter to another friend who has a vise, and then they can get it off. Makes perfect sense to me. Maybe I’ve become Mexican.

In less than an hour, the operation is done. The proud surgeon stands back from his patient and grins. I pretend to inspect. We stand together with the cold Durango wind at our backs and the warm Chevy eight cylinders roaring at us.

Alejandro guides my fingers under the filter to show me that there’s no gas leaking. The filter’s so cold from the gas that it’s hard to touch. He instinctively understands, gets a white cloth, and puts it under the seals. No leaks. I nod and act satisfied. I shake his hand and tell him I’m impressed. I am, too.

The time has come to pay. Nobody will come out on a cold Christmas Day for free. Before I ask Alejandro what he wants, I look at the shiny matched set of wrenches he’s putting back into their plastic case. He handles them with as much care and respect as if they were made of bone china.

He hands them slowly to me, eyes downcast.

Le guste? I ask. (Do you like them?)

Si! Muy fina. (Oh yes! They are very fine, nice, good.)

My friends have never accused me of terminal generosity, but I knew then that the wrenches would be in better hands in Durango than in mine anywhere. I hand them to him.

Un regalo, I say. (A gift.) I knew I didn’t have to but then I ask what he will charge for his work. He tells me to buy the guardia a coffee. I do better than that.

Back in my room, I ran a steaming bath and unpacked my portable jacuzzi. I settled into my bubbles and sighed, “Ho, ho, ho.”

Giving does feel good. As always, things worked out in the Mexican way. I made a friend, learned something about myself, and had a warm place to sleep. It was a good Christmas.

The Gobernador-Presidente, Av. 20 de Noviembre #257, is one of my favorite hotels. It’s a converted monastery. The Hollywood folk stay there when filming in Durango, but I like it anyway. I stayed there when I worked with MTV. The rooms are quiet, and they have tubs, so bring your jacuzzi!

Next, I’ll tell you about a lady who touched my calloused old heart. Susana Eger Valadez runs the Huichol (Indian) Center in Santiago Ixcuintla, Nayarit & has one of the most touching stories I’ve heard. She’s one of the people truly making a difference in the world. While you and I are just living, she’s quietly saving people’s lives and a whole tribe’s way of life. I felt truly humble in her presence.